Scripture Reading
“…not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ—the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith.”
—Philippians 3:9 (NIV)
Reflection
Sometimes the hardest thing in recovery isn’t breaking bad habits—it’s breaking the belief that your goodness will save you.
After coming out of secrecy or betrayal, we often swing to the other extreme: trying harder, being “better,” proving ourselves. It’s not just about healing anymore—it becomes about earning back approval. We think if we’re good enough, maybe we can undo the damage.
But Paul had all the religious credentials. If anyone could boast in good behavior, it was him. And yet, he called it all loss compared to knowing Christ.
Righteousness—right standing with God—is not something we earn. It’s something we receive. Through faith. By grace. Apart from performance.
Trying to be good can look impressive, but it can also be exhausting. And if we’re honest, sometimes it’s just another fig leaf—a way of hiding that we’re still scared, still unsure we’re lovable unless we’re impressive.
Jesus didn’t come to reward the good. He came to rescue the lost. The gospel is not a ladder for the worthy—it’s a lifeline for the desperate. You don’t have to keep proving your goodness. You’re already deeply loved.
Prayer
Jesus,
I’m tired of trying to earn what You’ve already given.
Tired of pretending I’m okay.
Tired of striving to feel worthy.
Remind me that my righteousness is not in my behavior, but in You.
Teach me to live from grace, not for it.
Help me rest—not in my progress, but in Your finished work.
Let my striving turn into surrender.
Amen.
Practice
Take a few minutes to write down this sentence and fill in the blank:
I feel most lovable when I ____________.
Now ask God: Is that really true?
Read Philippians 3:9 again. Then speak aloud (or pray silently):
Jesus, You are enough. And in You, so am I.